Relationship Reflections

               Trust, communication, empathy, and devotion are just a few traits that contribute to developing a strong foundation for healthy relationships. Interactions and experiences contribute to how an individual views themselves and others. Living in an environment where the above traits are practiced and taught allows the individual to seek friends and later love interests who possess those traits. My most influential relationship is with my daughter.

          I have a very close bond with my daughter that started from the womb. Feeling her move and seeing her in ultrasounds connected us  forever. She is cuddled and loved which promotes feelings of trust, love, and support. I encourage her to interact with other child and familiar adults which  introduces social development. Tatiana is an extension of myself.  She helps me to understand that even adults need to take stressful situations step by step. Her existence gives me meaning. I feel loved and special in a way that I have never felt before. Our relationship is reciprocal because we both benefit from our relationship. She learns from me and I learn from her. There are many lessons a child can teach an adult. The innocence of a child makes me feel peaceful and happy.

                 Some positive factors of developing and maintaining a relationship with Tatiana is teaching her what is normal and what is abnormal in friendships and other relationships. Guiding her down the right path also helps to teach her morals and values. Another factor is  teaching her what to expect in healthy relationships with others. It is also important to emphasize a strong sense of family, security, and understanding of social cues. She can teach me how let myself take a break.

         Some of the challenges are raising her in a tough world, allowing her to be an individual and make her own decisions. Another challenge is balancing time so that I can work, care for Tatiana, and maintain all of my responsibilities. My relationship with Tatiana strongly influences my ability to actively contribute to diverse populations. Early childhood education focuses on the idea that many families come from different social classes, ethnic groups, and religious backgrounds. Each of these factors influence the relationships between teachers and parents Tatiana loves to interact with everyone she sees and is always friendly. This example teaches me to listen and try to relate to others even if they are different.