Some of the supportive factors in my life are faith in Jesus, family, and my daughter. Faith in Jesus has been the most supportive factor because it creates a personal sense of security and stability. I pray each day for peace and favor in tough times. Family has also been a important factor throughout the last few years of my life. Our family motto is that we work together and help each other when we can. They have helped me when I got sick in my third trimester and was put on bed rest. My daughter is a continuous motivation that inspires me to keep moving even when times are hard. I look into her eyes and feel her unconditional love. Without these supports, I don't know where I would be. I wouldn't have a roof over me and my daughter's head, wouldn't have food, and my motivation would probably be non-existent. I appreciate the support that each factor gives me. The best benefit is retaining hope that things will get better.
I lack close female friends. Life changes such as children, jobs, moves, and new relationships have naturally distanced the relationship between me and my female friends. These relationships would be beneficial because we could share experiences, take time to have fun, and just give each other advice. It is difficult not having these friendships with other females because I feel alone and distant from other females.
Salesha
Hi Salesha,
ReplyDeleteI also have a strong faith that has gotten me through some difficult times. I pray for guidance on a daily basis because of life challenges. I moved around a lot as a child and I didn't have any close friends. My family has always been my rock. It is important to have these connections in your life.
Hey Salesha....I loved reading your post. I, too have strong faith and believe that's what holds all things together for me. I can also agree with you how wonderful it is to have the support of family. That's why I love that motto: FAMILY OVER EVERYTHING because without them, where would we all be. I, too can attest to not having a huge amount of female friends, however I do have a group of "sistafriends" that we come together once a month or so and simply just talk. I think you should give it a try to have at least one to have an outlet for yourself. As a women, you just need a listening ear from the same sex. Someone who you can just vent to because we as women bottle things up inside and create explosions. If you need an ear, i am here................
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